BOBBI-JO BRIGHTON, CST, LCI
SPEAKER for KEYNOTES & CORPORATE WORKSHOPS
I know. I wasted a lot of time being stuck and confused, yet I figured it out — and I’m here to show you the way to BECOME HER — saving you time, money, and frustration.
HER – the woman you envision in the picture above, looking over the mountain valley.
No, you don’t have to scale a mountain or stand on a cliff wearing chunky-heel boots.
This bold image serves to elevate your imagination and let your dreams, ambitions soar for just a moment.
- How would it feel to truly know yourself, and be fully confident and comfortable in your own skin — with no need to fake confidence?
- What would it mean to you to think clearly, easily articulate your thoughts, and go to sleep peacefully at night — without a thousand things racing through your mind?
- If you were an empowered woman who didn’t take things personally and could speak her mind without fear of coming across as bossy, icy, or bitchy — what would you say?
- What if you gave up feeling intimidated by others, gave up feeling “not good enough” — and let go of self-doubt and feeling like a fraud? Would that make room for your true value, gifts, and contribution to emerge?
- And, what if you could “feel the fear and do it anyway,” knowing you could not fail but only learn, grow, and keep moving forward — with confidence and courage?
Women executives and professionals, like you, come to me for Mental Toughness coaching because you’re stuck, confused, and fed up with being in your own way.
What is Mental Toughness? Mental Toughness is a process for ultimately winning the head game. It’s a process for learning how to clear your mind, take control of your thoughts, and skillfully manage your emotions so that you can perform optimally and create the life and career you envision — authentically, purposefully.
To BECOME HER is to embark on an internal journey to step up to the greater, more capable woman that already exists inside you, whether your ambitions are geared in your life, your family, or your career — whatever you want your world to be.
STUCK & CONFUSED
In a world with more technology, education, and opportunity than ever, why should a skilled, capable person like you ever feel stuck?
Being stuck is an internal reaction to an external situation. When you’re not in control of your thoughts and emotions, any situation can trigger feelings of frustration, confusion, anxiety, and fear of not living your full potential. You can’t trust others to give you the right answers because you have no time to try again.
It’s time to stop second-guessing your decisions and giving-in to excuse making and “decision paralysis.” To stretch beyond your comfort zone, instead of drowning in overwhelm and burning out or playing it safe and living with regret. To say “no” to running from one thing to the next and feeling guilty about doing something for yourself.
THE MISSING KEY
In today’s working world, the skills and knowledge you’ve worked so hard for are commodities that are easily replaced by another worker bee.
Then what ultimately differentiates you from your peers? Gives you a competitive advantage? Lets you live life on your own terms?
It is your authentic, empowered mindset.
Does your mindset reflect competence, EQ, and confidence — or resistance, fears, and insecurity? The right mindset attracts opportunities and deepens relationships. The wrong mindset repels the very things you want most, even if you have all the knowledge, experience, and skills you need.
Through coaching, the Mental Toughness Process gives you the practical HOW, the step-by-step guidance and tools needed to clear your mind, overcome fear and resistance, eliminate overwhelm, and move beyond self-doubt, insecurity, and inner criticism.
The result? You BECOME HER: More confidence, self-esteem and self-trust. Greater empowerment of your natural, inherent qualities and strengths as a woman. Optimal performance in your work. Deeper knowledge of your true self. Greater respect from those around you. Sharper focus, clarity, purpose, satisfaction and — yes — more FUN as you advance your life and career.
Without the right mindset, an internal resistance works against you, leaving you stuck in the same old thinking, getting the same old results.
IN HER WORDS
Bobbi-Jo takes the guesswork out. All the pieces that I’ve always known existed, but didn’t know how to bring them together, Bobbi-Jo reveals what the road map looks like.
Since the Women’s Mental Toughness training, I’ve learned to see my value and speak up more. I also successfully negotiated a higher bonus. Without the training, I know I would have kept quiet and accepted what bonus was offered.
I recognized that I’m shorting myself and those who report to me by not accounting for the “whole” person. Since, I’ve worked on me – gaining conscious awareness of my patterns and mindset – and supporting my team members to invest more in themselves personally and professionally for improved results.
I thought I was fine and didn’t need this. I walked in expecting one thing and walked out with so many ‘A-ha!’ moments about myself that I wasn’t even aware of. From the instruction, I’m giving up the old, limiting stuff in my head and boldly moving forward, knowing what real confidence is.
Bobbi-Jo offers a refreshing approach. It is somewhat of an uncomfortable experience, but one that delivers. Moreover, Bobbi-Jo fosters a safe and nonjudgmental environment, so I was comfortable speaking freely and truthfully.
The work is hard because you willingly dig and look and keep digging to identify the thoughts and behaviors that are holding you back personally and professionally. The hardest, but most important lesson was turning the lens on myself – without judgment – and embracing the way forward.
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