In their own words, incoming and repeating members of Guts, Grit & Grace share their struggles with openness and honesty.

My energy is low and I’m not present for my kids. I feel like I’m in a rut and I lack the confidence to branch out. I find myself shying away from opportunities.


I’m going through a divorce and feel I’m losing all I achieved. It’s flattened my self-esteem and confidence. I need to be strong now and power up.


I need to re-frame my thinking in some areas. I want to have a seat at the table in my career, but I shrink around authority figures and don’t put myself out there to speak my mind.


I’m in my first leadership role and struggling with making decisions. I’m overthinking things, second-guessing and doubting myself. I don’t want to fail in my new role.


I’m overwhelmed and frustrated with having to handle everything by myself. I’m dealing with a lot of stuff and want to learn how to control my emotions.


I’m going through big changes in my career, home, and personal life and need to better handle it all. I tend to over-apologize and sabotage my best efforts.


I want to be able to communicate my thoughts, without fear of saying something stupid and feeling anxiety of being judged.


I’m not where I thought I’d be at this point in my life and career. I want to stop overthinking things and feeling intimidated by others.


How to get “unstuck” – even if you’re feeling overwhelmed or bored at work, at home, or both!

Women professionals, like you, come to me for Mental Toughness coaching because you’re stuck, confused, and fed up with being in your own way.

  • How would it feel to truly know yourself, and be fully confident and comfortable in your own skin — with no need to fake confidence?
  • What would it mean to you to think clearly, easily articulate your thoughts, and go to sleep peacefully at night — without a thousand things racing through your mind?
  • If you were an empowered woman who didn’t take things personally and could speak her mind without fear of coming across as bossy, icy, or bitchy — what would you say?
  • What if you gave up feeling intimidated by others, gave up feeling “not good enough” — and let go of self-doubt and feeling like a fraud? Would that make room for your true value, gifts, and contribution to emerge?
  • And, what if you could “feel the fear and do it anyway,” knowing you could not fail but only learn, grow, and keep moving forward — with confidence and courage?

It’s time to show up for yourself.

Designed as an affordable solution, Group Coaching gives you the know-how and tools to take back control of your career and your daily life.

Let me be clear about one thing — you are not broken. You’re simply stuck in a vicious cycle of the same old thinking and getting the same old results. You return to your past way of doing things because, well, you don’t know any other way — yet.

There’s a reason why you’re stuck, and a clear path to getting unstuck.
The process starts inside YOUI am your guide to BECOME HER.

April – June 2019
Registration closes, April 30th


We begin with an easy, no-cost 30-minute “Get Out of Your Own Way” coaching session so I can hear what’s going on in your world… and we take it from there. To schedule your call, contact Bobbi-Jo at:

  • Phone: +1 570-332-5889,
  • Complete the Contact Request Form, or
  • Select a time slot from my Online Calendar:
Who you are today cannot get you to where you want to be.
You must BECOME HER. I help you BECOME HER.


The people and circumstances in your life aren’t the root problem. They only trigger the problem.

Nor are the unfair feelings of being undervalued, underappreciated, and incompetent, or the feelings of being bored, stuck, and missing out on life. Those are just the manifestations — and early warning signs — of the problem.

I’ve been there and I can you, the real problem is what’s going on inside your head. I bet that your going to bed at night with your mind racing, no break from all that mental chatter.


Then there’s that voice in the back of your head telling you that you’re not good enough or doing enough. Welcome to the head game.

To win the head game, you must get serious about controlling your mindset.

That means learning to control your actions, reactions and your thoughts. To feel comfortable in your own skin, now your value, and not take things personally. To fearlessly take actions that move you toward what you want, and responses that allow you to use your gifts fully.

That’s not so easy to learn all by yourself…


In a perfect corporate environment, you’d have role models to motivate you, mentors and sponsors to advise you, and counselors with your best interests at heart.

But that’s not always the case.

That’s why I’ve devoted my professional life to helping women develop the skills they need for success.

I’m not talking about professional skills — you already have those. In today’s economy, professional skills are a commodity that are experiencing downward pressure on their value.

I’m talking about mindset, also known as Mental Toughness, my specialty and passion.

I’ve learned the hard way that mindset matters and I’m here to show you the way to BECOME HER  saving you time, money, and frustration.

Let’s explore why mindset matters so much to your ultimate success, or failure.



In a world with more technology, education, and opportunity than ever, why should a skilled, capable person like you ever feel stuck?

Being stuck is an internal reaction to an external situation.

When you’re not in control of your thoughts and emotions, any situation can trigger feelings of frustration, confusion, anxiety, and fear of not living your full potential. You can’t trust others to give you the right answers because you have no time to try again.

It’s time to stop second-guessing your decisions and giving-in to excuse making and “decision paralysis.” To stretch beyond your comfort zone, instead of drowning in overwhelm and burning out or playing it safe and living with regret. To say “no” to running from one thing to the next and feeling guilty about doing something for yourself.


In today’s working world, the skills and knowledge you’ve worked so hard for are commodities that are easily replaced by another worker bee.

Then what ultimately differentiates you from your peers? Gives you a competitive advantage? Lets you live life on your own terms?

It is your authentic, empowered mindset.

Does your mindset reflect competence, EQ, and confidence — or resistance, fears, and insecurity? The right mindset attracts opportunities and deepens relationships. The wrong mindset repels the very things you want most, even if you have all the knowledge, experience, and skills you need.


Through coaching, the Mental Toughness Process gives you the practical HOW, the step-by-step guidance and tools needed to clear your mind, overcome fear and resistance, eliminate overwhelm, and move beyond self-doubt, insecurity, and inner criticism.

The result? You BECOME HER: More confidence, self-esteem and self-trust. Greater empowerment of your natural, inherent qualities and strengths as a woman. Optimal performance in your work. Deeper knowledge of your true self. Greater respect from those around you. Sharper focus, clarity, purpose, satisfaction and — yes — more FUN as you advance your life and career.

Without the right mindset, an internal resistance works against you, leaving you stuck in the same old thinking, getting the same old results.

When you understand your own internal resistance and take control of your actions, reactions and thoughts/mindset, you think better — and better thinking empowers better actions which produce better results.


I’ve developed an affordable program for women professionals, an online place to gather and discover how to meet the challenges of modern life. Here’s the no-risk path to my program:

  1. Stuck Quiz: A short quiz to help you evaluate your current situation and help me understand how to help you
  2. Your Discovery Call: A no-cost 30-minute one-on-one call, during which we discuss your situation as it is now and how you’d like it be
  3. Your Call Notes: An outline of what we uncovered during Your Discovery Call
  4. Your Invitation: If you qualify, you’ll be invited to join a small group of like-minded women to work through a program designed for you


Your invitation will include on outline of the time commitments, program costs, and payment options available in my group coaching program, including a 110% money-back guarantee in writing!

My main concern it to know that you’re willing to make changes in how you think, make decisions, and respond to others.

Rest assured that I understand the profile of women I’m best able to help, and I won’t accept you as a Group Coaching client unless I’m confident of your success.


Group coaching is not a stroll in the park. There are no quick fixes. You’ll have to do the work and make some changes in your life — starting with these:

  • You deserve to chart your own life, so during the program, we’ll develop a personal process for deciding where to devote your time and energy.
  • You teach others how to treat you, so you’ll discover how to negotiate boundaries between work, home, relationships, and personal life.
  • Life is no fun when you’re bored, so we’ll brainstorm ways to go after meaningful work, meaningful relationships, and meaningful life.
  • Work environments and relationships can be intimidating, so you’ll learn proven techniques for feeling the fear and doing it anyway.


If this journey of transformation turns out to be right for you, I urge you to join.

Why? Because when you try to live with burnout or boredom, you get the hopeless feeling that you’ll never finish what needs to be done.

Feelings of fear or regret will surely appear, followed by feelings of guilt, with a backlash into depression or anxiety.

You already know people like that.

I urge you not to settle for a life of mediocrity and being status quo — there is a simple way to access the greatness within you. I promise to show you.


So right now — while you’re thinking about it — schedule your no-cost 30 minute “Get Out of Your Own Way” coaching session with me. We’ll talk about your opportunities and struggles… and go from there:

  • Phone: +1 570-332-5889,
  • Complete the Contact Request Form, or
  • Select a time slot from my Online Calendar: